When Hurt People Hurt Themselves - Supporting Young People Who Self-Harm

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  • Author: Fi Newood 
  • Level: All
  • Session time: 4 hours
  • Exams: N/A
Course overview
Self-harming behaviours are sadly becoming more common among young people in the UK — and fostered or adopted children are at even greater risk. As a parent or carer, it can be frightening, confusing, and heartbreaking to witness. Knowing how to respond can make a profound difference.

This course, led by psychotherapist Fi Newood, brings both professional expertise and lived experience. Fi has worked with children who self-harm and parented them, giving her a unique perspective on what truly helps — and what does not.

You’ll gain a deeper understanding of why young people self-harm, how it connects to trauma and attachment, and what you can do to offer support while also protecting your own wellbeing.
Certification included
Evidence your learning with a bespoke Flourish Foundation certificate on completion. 

What will you learn?

  • Insight into the many different ways self-harm can show up
  • Clarity around myths and misconceptions about self-harming behaviour
  • Understanding of the links between self-harm, trauma, attachment, and self-worth
  • Practical strategies that can help — and awareness of approaches that don’t
  • Reflect on the challenges foster and adoptive parents face in these situations
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Meet the instructor

Fi Newood

Fi has worked with Looked After Children since 2000 and is both a foster and adoptive parent. Her personal and professional experiences have shaped her passion for therapeutic parenting and supporting adults who care for children with trauma histories.
 
She is a qualified Counsellor, Psychotherapist, Life Coach, and Trainer with a Master’s in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy.
 
Fi is also the author of several books and creator of the 3B’s therapeutic model, known for her practical and compassionate approach to helping families help children heal and thrive.
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